Is anybody out there tired of the ole –It’s everybody’s fault but mine– game? I AM! I’m not talking about politicians I’m talking about friends and family. We have all done it and hopefully we have grown out of it but for some, I think they enjoy being there.
They enjoy always blaming someone or some circumstance for their situation. Blaming serves only one purpose — making you feel like a victim.
Don’t get me wrong there are times when there are other people to blame for what has happened to you. Those things are not what I’m talking about such as certain acts of crime that may have happened to us.
Just how many names have already popped in your head? You would love to take this poster and plaster it all over their house? I can sure name a few! Have you ever been left at the very last moment trying to pull it all together because YOU had to finish a job that someone didn’t do? NOBODY likes having their back against the wall. There’s an old saying, “you want something done, go to the busiest person.” There’s a lot of truth in that!
People who blame others tend to overemphasize themselves. Blaming others, often just boils down to plain ole lazy and selfish. When you blame others it does not require you to meet any standard of behavior — other than what you feel is appropriate for the situation. It is their fault!
Do us all a favor and just accept blame for your own actions!